Over the next few days we're going to share some wedding etiquette with you. we always have brides, grooms and families asking us so we'll take a few days to go over a few things.
Day1- we'll start with a fun one
Showers and Parties
Who Hosts the Shower?
According to tradition, a shower should not be thrown by the bride's immediate relatives, such as her mother, future mother-in-law, or sister, since it would appear that they were asking for gifts. The maid of honor or another good friend usually hosts, or several people, often bridesmaids, share the responsibility.
It is common for a bride to have more than one shower; when this happens, the hosts should consult one another about guest lists to avoid duplication. Showers are generally held from a couple of months to a couple of weeks before the wedding.
Regardless of who throws the shower, the host should be on hand -- alongside the bride -- to meet guests as they enter the party.
Shower Guests
Whether your hosts are inviting 18 guests or 80, "the invites should go out a month to six weeks in advance". As for who makes the cut? Since showers are intended for the bride's nearest and dearest, every shower guest must already be on the wedding guest list.
Shower Invitations
Shower stationery trends run the gamut from sweet and simple to high-end. "The options right now are truly endless -- from letterpress to couture -- and suit all budgets". There are so many more options than there used to be. While there are no boundaries when it comes to selecting the stationery, the sending-it-out part is a little less flexible: snail mail only.
Shower Traditions
"The tradition of the groom showing up with flowers just before his fiancee opens the gifts is definitely back". Guests who haven't met the lucky guy before often look forward to this part of the shower for that very reason.
Rituals that have been passed down from older generations are still common. A popular one: making a bouquet out of the shower gifts' ribbons and bows and using it as a stand-in for the real one at the wedding rehearsal. Other old-school traditions, such as having something old, new, borrowed, and blue on hand, are still favorites of today's brides as well.
Creating a new tradition can add a layer of sentiment. Some ideas? Passing around photos from the shower of the mother-of-the bride, or taking a snapshot with multiple generations of women.
Shower Gifts
Because it is understood that guests should bring a present to a shower, it is not appropriate to invite people whom you don't plan to include in the wedding. One noted exception is an office shower; it is not usually possible to invite all of your colleagues to the wedding, but they may want to help you celebrate nonetheless. By the time the shower invitations are sent, the bride should have already registered for gifts; it is perfectly acceptable for hosts to include registry information in the invitations.
Bridal Shower Themes
Attendees are often asked to satisfy gifting themes, from lingerie to kitchen to a personal interest of the bride. "'Round the Clock' showers can be particularly cute". "Everyone is assigned a specific time of day, and the gift should relate to it. Midnight, for instance, could be Champagne; three in the morning could be a 'Do Not Disturb' sign." If the bride will be traveling after the shower and would find it difficult to transport gifts, consider a shoe box shower; if each gift will fit in a shoe box, they should fit in a suitcase as well.
need great invitations? consider creating your own, if not consider stationery from Vera Wang or Crane
http://www.crane.com/
http://www.verawang.com/veraunveiled/2010/11/gift-guide-personalized-stationery/
we'll continue over the next few days with;
who pays for what
weding party attire
invitation wording ( 2 parts )
situations with sticky guests tune in and see
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